It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of our mother Catherine Wylie. Mom was known for her generosity, never hesitating to lend a helping hand or to pull up an extra chair, the “more the merrier” was always her motto. Mom was a real force of nature, unrelenting in her pursuit of greatness in the boardroom. She paved the way when the internet first came onto the scene creating the first Canadian online shopping website back in 1998. She then moved into the charity space providing countless charities with the opportunity to move their fundraising online. She ran her companies for over 30 years, however, Mom liked to say her biggest accomplishment was us, her children Kyle (Ashley), Jennifer (Glen), Kaitlin (John), Wylie (Jesse) & Alana (Colin). She loved us fiercely and was always there when we needed her. She relished her role as Glamma, a term coined when her first grandson Ethan was born, she is the proud Grandma of 10 grandchildren. We will miss her. In lieu of flowers please make a donation on her behalf to either Family Services North Shore or Victoria Single Parent or Canucks Place

The family of Ewart Gordon (Gord) Bissell are saddened to announce that he has passed away just three months after celebrating his 100^th birthday. We were so lucky to be able to gather to celebrate his milestone birthday in April.

Gord was born in Leamington Spa, England in 1924. He joined the Royal Air Force in 1942 and flew in Ferry Command throughout the war. While training in Canada during the war, Gord met Irene Saynor in North Bay and they married in 1945. After the war, Gord and Irene spent time in England before returning to Canada where Gord joined the RCAF. After a distinguished career, with postings in both Europe and Canada, Gord retired with the rank of Major and the position of Commanding Officer of the Search and Rescue Coordination Centre in Esquimalt/Victoria. After retirement from the military, Gord enjoyed working at Butler Bros. (a home improvement store). He played golf regularly as a long-time member at Uplands Golf Course. He cherished living on Prospect Lake with Irene and actively serving as a board member on the local community association.

Gord was a man of integrity and honour. Everyone who met him described him as the quintessential English gentleman. He was smart, kind and loving. His children, grandchildren and great grandchildren all benefited from having this amazing man as a role model.

Gord was predeceased by his wife Irene in 2011 and his grandson Matthew in 2021, both of whom he loved dearly. He leaves to mourn his passing his two sons; Chris (Madeline), Mike (Irene), his four grandchildren; David (Karen) Bissell, Amey (Martin) McComb, Kim (Josh) Brownlee and Scott (Nicole) Bissell as well as his eight great grandchildren; Jackson, Griffin, Samantha, Emilyn, Cohen, Calysta, Kendyl, and Natalia.

As per Gord’s request there will be no formal funeral. The family will gather privately for a memorial to a life well lived. RIP Dad. We will always remember you.

 

 

 

October 24, 1950 ( Leersum, The Netherlands) – July 7, 2024 (Victoria, BC)

During the evening of July 7, 2024 at Royal Jubilee Hospital I held the hand of the love of my life as he passed from this realm of existence. There to support his transition were his brother and sister-in-law Nathen and Liz Derksan. Hen and I had much more living and loving to do but 35 years was all that we were given. I had the privilege of loving him and being loved by him for all those years.

Henry was an unassuming and humble man. His humility could only be surpassed by his immense creative talent and his intellectual brilliance. Whatever Hen turned his hand to, the result would be near perfection and his own evaluation, although he was proud of his accomplishments, rarely rose to the level of praise or accolades he received from others.

Hen walked softly as he moved through life. He had such a gentle spirit. I never heard an unkind word said about him. Nor did I ever hear him speak unkindly of others. It was easy to like Hen. He treated everyone with kindness, compassion, acceptance and respect. His love of animals was evidenced by his constantly full pocket of “treats”. His feline buddy Lukas, who was the beneficiary of many of those “treats”, will miss him forever.

Hen’s work life was spent primarily at Ellett Industries in Port Coquitlam  where he worked as a metal fabricator/metal finisher and welder for almost 40 years. He became known as one of the best metal polishers around. Hen made some lifelong friends through his work. Even after retirement to Qualicum Beach, BC he stayed in contact with many of his work mates. They will miss his phone calls I am sure.

Hen’s passion was music. From a very early age it was clear that Hen was a musician. His family say he was practically born with a guitar in his hands. He was entirely self-taught. Not having the ability to read or write music, Hen viewed it only as an occasional nuisance while he composed songs. He seemed to enjoy the freedom of “no rules”. No longer will I hear the sweet live tunes coming from his studio. No longer will I be asked what I thought of a new tune or riff. Without exception, all those who were lucky enough to hear Hen play would be amazed that the same hands that built huge metal tanks could also play a guitar with such a delicate approach at times. He mentored many a young guitarist/musician who all benefited from the expertise he generously and freely offered.

Hen’s creative talents extended to metal and wood sculptures large and small, stained glass windows and objects, photography, and more. But, Hen was most proud of his ability to repair guitars and build them from scratch. He built several cigar box guitars, a guitar from a tabletop with inlaid wood – in other words, in Hen’s mind anything could become a guitar and he was going to build it!

Nobody could make me laugh like Hen did. His sense of humour was renowned among family and friends. Hen would deliver observational humour that could literally have you on the floor laughing uncontrollably (or at least bending over in hysterics).

How does one fully encapsulate the life and spirit of a person in a few lines for an obituary? I can’t. Hen was much more than the few words I share here. The best years of my life were with Hen. He made me a better person and I will do my utmost not to tamper with that legacy.

Hen believed that there had to be something after this earthly life. If there is, I hope that he has met up with his lifelong friend and guitar buddy Gord. And may those two have one heck of a jam session with Stevie Ray Vaughn & Jeff Beck – just 2 of Hen’s guitar heroes.

Hen was predeceased by both parents, Frank and Cornelia Derksen; brother Andre; brother Frank; mother-in-law Elspeth Sommer; brother-in-law Al Berglund; and nephew Steve Berglund. He is survived by his loving wife of 35 years, Kat Derksen. Hen will be remembered with great love and affection by his brother and sister-in-law Nathen & Liz Derksan; sister Thea Berglund; nephews Mike Berglund, Frank Berglund, Alex Derksan (Shea), and Keenen Derksan; by great-nephews Jordan Berglund and Anthony Berglund, great-niece Natalie Berglund and by their mother Angela Berglund. Hen was much adored and will be missed by his family through marriage; brother-in-law Rick Sommer, niece Mollie Sommer and her children Austin & Ella; Nephew Sam Sommer, his wife Brooke and their son Jack; aunt Judi Sommer; uncle Warren Sommer; aunt Robin Sommer and cousin Karen Sommer.

No service by request. A Celebration of Life in Qualicum Beach will be planned for a later date. In the meantime, Hen and I would be honoured if you would listen to Stevie Ray Vaughn’s “Riviera Paradise”. It was his favourite composition. And you might choose to sip on a glass of Boomsma – Hen’s favourite gin. It is a “softer and sweeter spirit” than other gins. Just like Hen.

Good-Night Babe. I love you.

Kat

Hen’s passion was music and he believed that every child should have access to music education. In keeping with this, in lieu of flowers please consider making a donation to help youth access music education/mentorship:

Sarah McLachlan School of Music, 138 East 7^th Ave, Vancouver, BC V5T 1M6

www.sarahschoolofmusic.com

 

Barbara Ratchford (née Frost), 70, of Victoria BC, passed away on May 28th, one week shy of her 71st birthday.

Barbara is survived by her loving husband James Ratchford, sister Sandra (Daniel) Scott, brother-in-law Chris (Lesley) Ratchford, sister in-laws Susan (Ken) Domereski and Joanne (Bruce) Meyers along with many nieces and nephews and other close family members and friends. 

 She enjoyed a career hairdressing/managing salons in retirement homes and hospitals bringing joy to many.  She met her husband Jim (James) in Victoria where they spent a loving 30 years together.  

 A small, private celebration of life will be held at a future date.  In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to your local SPCA, an organization Barbara felt strong about.

 

Deborah was born in Regina, Saskatchewan but soon moved with her family to Vancouver, BC where her brother Daryl was born. In the late 1950’s the family moved to Victoria where they owned and operated the Tudor House Inn for several years before moving to Powell River where they owned and operated a local hotel. Again, in the early 1960’s the family moved back to Victoria to participate in the operation of the Century Inn.
It was then that Deborah started her many years at Norfolk House school where she enjoyed several languages and sports among her activities. She has kept in contact with many of her school friends over the years.
After graduating school and working to save funds she embarked on a six+ month trip through Europe, Morocco and Great Britain. Traveling was one of her passions with many trips abroad during her schooling and life endeavors. Trips to Hong Kong, Singapore, hiking through the jungles of Borneo and staring into the depths of Mt Vesuvius where among her travel destinations. Recent trips to Europe with long stays in Spain and time in Paris, Venice (one of her favorites) Florence, Morocco and Ireland.
She worked for many years as a Certified General Accountant (CGA) becoming one of the youngest female comptrollers of a business in her early 20’s, installing leading edge computers of the day. After many years of accounting with several businesses and government positions she retired at 62 and started to enjoy her hard earned retirement. Her culinary passions blossomed and she held many family and friend dinners over the years. Some of her happiest times.
She married the love of her life, Mark, in 1988 and they considered themselves newlywed until the end.
Deborah will be sadly missed but lovingly remembered by her family and friends. Leaving behind her husband Mark, brother Daryl (Donna), Sister in law Barbara, Aunt Crista and nephew Clayton plus many friends and relatives.
A Celebration of Life will be held over the summer. To be announced.